Since becoming single and dating again the world has opened up. Adult dating is much harder than when I was a teenager. Know what I want and meeting the wants of the others is not what it used to be. Now days dating is like buying a new car with deluxe detail. Children, no children, employed or not, love life or would rather watch it pass by. All of these are qualities we look for when dating and since being an adult in the dating world it is more than just finding Mr. Right or Mrs. Right. Long term wants are now considered our date for a future lasting relationship. Living the single life and dating is sometimes fun but can be demanding to meet new people in this fast pace world. Speed-dating is the new thing with adults and can be fun but knowing if someone is the one is a matter of opinion.